TIPS FOR LOVING HIM:

Buy him a flower.
If he's a sports fan:  Find out what time the game is on.
         Turn on the T.V. to the right channel and watch it with him!
Write him a love letter.
Give him a full body massage.
Greet him one night wearing nothing but one of his ties.
Hide a sexy picture of yourself where he will have to find it
        during the day.
Debate topics with him and find value in an alternate opinion… even if you don’t agree… even if you are right most of the time.
Tell him plainly what you need or want… please don’t make him guess.
Caring for him more than he does for you is the essence of
         positive loving. Equality is not measured by a single act.
Give him a kiss just because you love him. Tell him how much you do.
Expect his best and challenge him to live up to it. Get his permission to “work on him” or to give him useful feedback.
Encourage his “reasonable involvement” in athletics… it will benefit you in the long run… wink wink…nudge nudge.
Let him know how much you love him, no matter what it takes.
Pick a week where you actually put sexual intimacy ahead of emotional intimacy… just to switch it up a bit
Compliment him in the presence of his friends, not just when you're
         alone.
Hold his hand in public
Put notes in his lunch!
Keep him involved in what counts in your life and the children’s as well.